it’s not like you’ll have to wear a pin on your shirt showing that you’re a newbie. you’ll probably be nervous (see Jack’s concern) - but experience is not a prerequisite for coming to these. don’t worry, it’s all very cool and no pressure.
now, about those “pervy” people. the fact is, men who come to these events tend to be nice, normal, sane, professional, easygoing, and fun. they share an open-mindedness, and a desire to interact with others in a sexy, sensual, erotic or physical way. if that's a "big perv" then i suppose i (the host of these) am one, too. i'm not so sure it's a bad thing to be.
perhaps the “perverted” ones in our society are those who deny themselves such pleasures...
ok - i think i can do this. tell me more about ALL MALE PARTIES
wait - i'm like some other people, too. take me back to their concerns.
