guys, if you're into oral but not anal, that's cool.
and hey, if you've never been around naked men playing and just want to watch - with your own clothes on - that's cool, too.
just go at your own pace. at Open Minded Events, there is no pressure to do anything you don't want to do.
shit, this sounds like fun... but shit, i am SO nervous. i don’t know if i can do this. i mean, it's a group scene! it turns me on so much, but i know i'd be freaking out if i were there.
first of all, realize that you are not the only one who is nervous. many people who attend naked parties - in fact, MOST people who attend them - are nervous. it doesn’t matter whether it’s your first, fifth, or fifteenth party - there is usually some degree of nervousness buzzing around in your head before it starts. not only before you get there, but once you arrive, too. take solace in the fact that once people start getting naked, the nervous feelings quickly disappear. really!
now, if you really don’t think you can do this, then my advice to you is... “don’t.” the fact is, life offers us many things, and some are terribly exciting, and some we try and some we don’t. if you want to try something new that is REALLY fun, then contact me. but if you don’t - if you are just not ready to give this a shot - then don’t waste your time getting cleared for these parties. even if i stop having parties, let’s say, a year from now, and you decide that in 18 months you want to give this a go, trust me - you’ll find other parties, and you can try them. it’s not like these sorts of all male gatherings are ever going to go out of style.
i suppose my point is this: go at your own pace. if you find this exciting, but know that you are not really ready to step through the door, then sit back behind your computer and experience this party as a “lurker”... play with yourself in bed as you fantasize about ‘em. perhaps one day in the future you’ll decide to take the next step. and until then, rest assured - where you are right now is just fine.
ok - i think i can do this. tell me more about ALL MALE PARTIES
wait - i'm like some other people, too. take me back to their concerns.
