um, yeah. that’s a case-by-case thing, and tough to answer. but the best plan might be to smile and know that he is in the same boat as you are. it’s amazing how being cool in a situation really is the coolest way to be.
but it would be awkward if he would want to have sex with me.
again, be cool - and keep your head about you. there's a far better chance that HE'D be freaked out about seeing you, and so the likelihood of him wanting to play with you in that "surprise" situation is actually pretty small.
ok - i think i can do this. tell me more about ALL MALE PARTIES
wait - i'm like some other people, too. take me back to their concerns.
