at Open Minded Events, you are always able to go at your own pace. although it’s true that at most parties the naked play begins immediately, there is always some space where you can hang out and chat with other guys, or just sit back and watch. there is never any pressure to join in. other events might include a warm up time, where people share some drinks and conversation before they move into play mode.
if you want to come to an event and just watch, without any intention to physically interact with others, that is absolutely fine. after all, as Justin Bonds says in John Cameron Mitchell's movie Shortbus, "voyeurism is participation" too.
it’s easy to make new friends at these events. and afterwards, it’s pretty typical that some of us go out and get a bite to eat. this other way to “eat out” can be fun, too!
ok - i think i can do this. tell me more about ALL MALE PARTIES
wait - i'm like some other people, too. take me back to their concerns.
